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Chingona Playbook
Secrets to Dance to Your Own Beat
Edited by Miriam Simon
There comes a point when you get tired of living by rules you never agreed to. Tired of shrinking. Tired of asking for permission to be fully yourself. This book brings together heart-felt stories from women who broke patterns, rebuilt after hard shit, challenged expectations, and chose themselves. These pages are about courage, identity, healing, leadership, reinvention, and becoming more of who you aleady are. Find the story that hits you. Take the lesson. Then go live on your own terms. Chingonas were never meant to follow the beat. We make our own.
#21DaysofChingona
A great leader taught me to keep momentum there must be a way to continue participation, and not be a one and done type of leader, initiative or project. This is what brought the 21 Days of Chingona to life. Each day is an opportunity to not only read a chapter, but also embrace its message through your own lens, which is of most important.
Angela Briones
Making Rainbows Instead of Waves
"I have learned that my voice is my most powerful tool."
Karola Castro
Soy Lo Que Mis Ancestros Soñaron
"La decisión de dejar de vivir definida por mis pérdidas y comenzar a construir desde mis posibilidades."
Melany del Carpio
It’s All About Me
"It took my body begging me for change for me to realize the most important relationship I forgot to nurture, with myself."
Erika Dox-Martinez
Beautiful Girl, You Can Do Hard Things
"You need one hard thing, done scared, and then the willingness to do the next one."
Thelma Federico Zaragoza
Gorda
"I had to wake up from this stupor and find the strength to make the right choices for myself."
Yazmin Garcia
Finding Yourself After Self-Deportation
"There isn't one definition of success we all have to follow."
Edith G. Gil
No Roadmap. Still, I Danced.
"Sometimes people don’t lack ambition. They lack exposure."
Kat Lopez Shelby
Community Is a Verb: Finding Family, Belonging, and Purpose Beyond Blood
"Discovering that sometimes the family who helps you become the person you're meant to be isn't the one you were born into, it's the one you build."
Vanessa Macias
LGBTQue?
Between Borders and Coming Out
"The distance had given me something I had never truly experienced before: the freedom to discover who I was without constantly fearing someone else's judgment."
Lorena Mejia
A Chocolate Covered Red Apple
"Chasing an opportunity isn't entitlement, especially when you’ve earned it with your sweat and tears, and at times, literally."
Alexis Moreno
All the Feels: Accepting My Wounds to Uncover a Path Forward
"The shift was that I no longer required a complete map before choosing myself."
Dr. Vanessa Nazario
Navigating the Crossroads: A Latina’s Journey by Owning Her Power
"I realized that my early days in a low-income community were not a liability—they were the source of my empathy and the engine of my advocacy for those who cannot advocate for themselves, whether due to access or resources."
Carmen Noonan
Remembering My Chingona
How I Stopped Shrinking and Started Belonging to Myself
"To become not only resilient, but free."
Erika Padilla
To My Daughters: The Legacy I Hope to Leave Behind
"No matter what life brings, tienen todo en ustedes mismas para empezar de nuevo."
Elizabeth Pastrano
Act 2
"We are literally given the gift to create life but second guess ourselves for wanting to create a life that feels like ours. you are granted permission."
Roselyn Perez Casiano
The Bags by the Door
"The wall I built wasn't keeping me safe anymore. It was just keeping me by myself."
Dr. Christina M. Sanchez
More Than the Help
"The little girl from the hood could never have imagined this life, but every season of her life had prepared her for it."
Rosa Sanchez-Yokoyama
Crumpled Pieces of Paper
"The voice didn’t roar but it didn’t go away. It kept telling me, you are allowed to want something different."
Berenis Vargas Luna
Estarías Bien Bonita Si Estuvieras Delgadita
"When you begin to understand food as medicine you become intentional with yourself. That's love."
Cynthia Vazquez
The Version of Me I Was Hiding Was the Most Qualified One in the Room
"Sacrificio, the immigrant calculus of staying in the stable thing long enough to build the standing that lets you leave on your own terms, not out of desperation."
Elizabeth "Liz" Villarreal
The Body Keeps Receipts
"I had to move forward into a new reality I never would have picked, and I had to learn to live inside it."
RALPHIE
There are books that you read to pass the time, and then there are books that pull you by the spirit, look you dead in the eye, and remind you exactly who you are. This book is the latter. From the very first page, it feels less like reading a collection of stories and more like sitting in a sun-drenched kitchen with your comadres, sharing the kind of deep, unfiltered truths that only come from a place of survival and love.
The beauty of this collection lies in how fiercely relatable it is. These aren’t untouchable, perfect heroes; these are women who have stumbled, women who have carried the heavy weight of generational expectations, and women who have had to rebuild themselves from scratch. The authors pull back the curtain on the raw, often messy reality of personal evolution. They bring a striking, triumphant brightness to the idea of growth, proving that expanding into your full potential doesn't mean you don't break along the way—it just means you let the light in through the cracks.
Prepare to have your emotions entirely hijacked. One chapter will have you weeping tears of heavy empathy, deeply feeling the ache of a grief or a quiet sacrifice you recognize all too well in your own life. The next chapter will have you laughing out loud, feeling a sudden, electric burst of pride and joy that makes you want to stand up and cheer. It perfectly captures the duality of the Latina experience—the ability to hold deep sorrow in one hand and fierce, unshakeable joy in the other.
This isn't just a book; it’s a mirror, a sanctuary, and a battle cry all rolled into one. It is a vital, unapologetic anthem explicitly written for every chingona out there—whether you are currently standing tall in your power, or still gathering the pieces to build your own throne. If you are ready to feel seen, challenged, and deeply inspired to keep growing, do yourself a favor and pick this up immediately.
THE REVIEWS
ROFIAT O.
The book offers meaningful stories and reflections about resilience and confidence. I appreciated how each story offers a reminder to keep moving forward, even when the path is uncertain.
The chapter “Navigating the Crossroads: A Latina’s Journey by Owning Her Power” really stood out to me. I loved the reminder that “you can control your world” and the importance of focusing on what you have rather than what you lack.
The author’s story was a powerful example of turning circumstances into motivation rather than limitations. I also appreciated how she viewed growing up in a low income community as a source of empathy and advocacy.
My biggest takeaway was not allowing fear or a lack of confidence to make you leave opportunities on the table. I also loved the reminder to recognize the “hidden angels” who help us along the way. Overall, a great reminder to stay humble, optimistic, and keep moving forward! Great book!
Zarina
If you want to be inspired by Latina powerhouses, then this is the read for you!
I’m a Latina therapist, the eldest daughter of immigrants, the one that translated documents from a very young age, the “black sheep” of the family.
I felt so incredibly seen while reading these stories. I knew that I was not alone. Reading about them willing to bet on themselves porque no había de otra reminded me that that’s what chingonas do!
So thank you for inspiring me and reminding me that I am also a chingona surrounded by other chingonas and thank you so much for sharing these powerful stories!
About the Miriam Simon
Founder | Speaker | Publisher
Miriam Simon is an immigrant, Latina LGBTQ+ executive coach, leadership strategist, publisher, speaker, & founder of Casa de Chingonas and Mi Sí House.
With more than 25 years of leadership experience, she has helped thousands of professionals grow their confidence, strengthen their leadership, & navigate careers with courage and authenticity. Her work blends street wisdom with corporate strategy, helping people stop proving themselves & start leading from who they truly are.
As creator of the Chingona Playbook, Miriam believes every women carries wisdom that deserves to outlive her. She is the author of Tattoos & Pearls: Combining Street Wisdom with Corporate Strategy, host of Latina Mic Drop Podcast, and creator of the The Chingona Times, where she explores leadership, identity, & the courage to dance to your own beat.
